BLOG
Lots of time to write while waiting for someone to get out of a studio…
Quick musings about some of the challenges, rewards and observations that can come up along the way when supporting tween, teen and young adult creative artists.
Learning to Manage Negative Feedback
Hi Dr. Alaina - I need some help. My son has had a really rough year. He’s into videography - not just YouTube stuff but more like filmmaking. I’m a single mom and I just never had a lot of extra money to spend on training or equipment. His grandparents got him a...
Collaboration vs Competition in the Creative Arts
Recently, I had a conversation with several moms about collaboration and competition. It began with a mom who was very displeased, feeling that her son's new dance studio was more invested in focusing on competition rather than collaboration. She strongly felt that...
Mindfulness and Creativity for Teens
Does your creatively driven teen engage in any sort of mindfulness practice? Mindfulness can help heighten creativity for teens. It can deepen their connection to their art, unlock new levels of artistic expression and enhance their ability to be resilient in the face...
Finding Balance Between Academics and Creative Arts
I’m so frustrated and angry. After having a very rational and logical conversation with us, my daughter begged me and my husband to stop checking on her grades weekly and to let her handle it. Well, we made a big mistake and listened to her. We just got her grades...
Embracing the Unknown – The Benefits of a Gap Year
Somewhere at the beginning of his junior year, our son, a musician, let us know he wasn’t sure if he wanted to go to college right away. The fact that I didn’t become immediately alarmed is a testament to how much my perspective had changed from my experience as a...